About
The Full Story
Hey there, I go by Desiree’ Yumi (she/her). I am a disabled Black woman, scholar, spiritualist, researcher, and mother from the south by way of Texas. I am Mekisha, Jeremy, Calvin, Freddie, Elvlar, Juana, and Weezy’s baby. These locations make up the frame through which I see and experience this world.​
I believe fiercely in the revolutionary power of love. Love as choice, motivation, and political action can and continues to change the world.
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In my work I hope to spread light through self-love so we all may find that sweet space within ourselves to tend to and seek refuge in. There, in my opinion, is where the power is. In working with me, I will always point you back to yourself. You are the thing you need.
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I found doula work in college while studying the intersections of reproductive justice and incarceration. Doula work, for me, is about a legacy of resistance and making the margins the main. What I mean by that is, this world tells us certain bodies— Black, queer, incarcerated, young people, etc.— are disposable. I see birth work as my way of saying fuck them and fuck that. Our lives are precious and we deserve to birth our babies and raise our families with dignity. So, any entity that does not see the divinity within us can kiss our collective assses.
My doula work is grounded in providing compassionate care to our divinely aligned Stars. My approach is tender truth telling, authenticity, and wraparound support, meaning we assess what the need is, then where you are located within that need. From that space we work together to pull in resources so you are supported, informed, and feeling safe as you navigate the waters of childbirth and new parenthood. I work especially and specifically with Black women and Black queer/nonbinary birthing people. Non-Black people are welcome.
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My work relies on the teachings of the 19th and 20th century Black midwives. Additionally, I approach birth work from birth justice, reproductive justice, disability justice, queer justice, and black feminist frameworks.
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I do not doula in a vacuum. I am a member of many birth work spaces with my sister and sibling doulas, teachers, and peers. If there is something I do not know, there is likely someone within my network who does.
Our Mission
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Our mission is to empower birthing people, strengthen families, and heal lineages through peer-supported birth and energy work
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We see a future that is Black. And free. And real. What does this mean?
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Making decisions about our lives that are accessible and attainable without imposition from societal, governmental, social, spiritual, or financial constraints.
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Making a good → sustainable ← living for ourselves and our families without having to sell ourselves or our labor.
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Living in harmony with the physical and spiritual land, beings, and technologies without extracting or polluting it.
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Honoring and celebrating the histories of those that came before us without threat of persecution.
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Disentangling ourselves fully from the limitations of colonialism, imperialism, whiteness, sexism, the illusion of white supremacy, and anti-Blackness.
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"I am not my sister's keeper. I am my sister" —Iyanla Vanzant
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What is DA3H?DA3H, pronounced like dash, stands for Divinely Aligned Holistic Health and Healing.
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Why do you prioritize working with Black people? That feels racist.We work primarily (but not exclusively) with Black birthing people and families. In the U.S. Black women and birthing people die due to childbirth complications at a higher rate than any other demographic. The maternal mortality rate for Black women and birthing people is 2-3 times higher than the mortality rate for white women. Studies show Black women and birthing people are often underheard, misunderstood, and underserved in medical environments. Black people have higher rates of postpartum mood disorders, postpartum complications, and often suffer from a lack of culturally competent resources. This is about meeting a need and providing a love offering to the community. And reverse racism doesn’t exist. (source, source, source)
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What is a full spectrum peer doula?We have chosen to call ourselves peer doulas because we are going on this journey alongside you. As a doula, I have had the opportunity to explore specialized studies related to birth and birthing. However, you have been yourself for much longer. Together we work together, as peers, to make sure you are educated, informed, and supported as you navigate pregnancy and new parenthood. I have 4+ years of experience as a peer mentor and understand the significance of learning from a place of empowerment instead of simply instruction. As a full spectrum doula, we are here to support you at any stage along the reproductive life cycle from abortion, fertility and conception to pregnancy, birth, and loss. We are here for you.
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How can I be sure you’re the right provider or me?Ultimately, this is a decision you have to make for yourself. We recommend scheduling a consultation– here you will get 1:1 time to speak with Desiree’, ask personalized questions, and get to know a little bit more about her doula philosophy. If you decide she is not the right fit, don’t worry. We have plenty of excellent birth workers, reiki practitioners, and/or diviners that we can refer you to.
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How much can a doula impact a birth?Doulas do not guarantee birth outcomes. Doulas can, however, have a plethora of positive impacts on the birthing experience. Doula care can reduce rates of cesarean and premature birth as well as improve breastfeeding success for supported families. Read more about how doula support can benefit you here. (source)
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What have you learned from being a doula?One of the biggest lessons I have learned from my career in maternal care and reproductive research is how important it is to listen. So often, women and birthing people (especially if they are Black) are not heard and not believed in healthcare settings. I have seen it happen to my clients as a doula and I experienced it happen to me during my own pregnancy. Too little effort is put into centering the client or patient. At DA3H, we recognize that you are the expert of your own body. We strive to ensure each of our clients, no matter the service, are witnessed wholly and authentically.
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I like your services but your pricing is out of my budget. Are there options for me?Yes! We do not want price to be the reason you do not receive care. As an anti-capitalist entity, we know money can often be a barrier. Below are a few of the ways we work to offset these issues and make our work more affordable and accessible. Discounts. Black people, LGBTQIA+ people, and formerly incarcerated people have access to our services at a discounted rate. Reach out through the contact form here for more information. The Doula Network. The Doula Network is a national organization that makes doula care accessible by partnering with state Medicaid programs to cover doula services. I am credentialed through The Doula Network and can support births for those with United Healthcare Medicaid free of charge. Reach out through the contact form for more information. The Gulf Coast Doula Coalition. The Gulf Coast Doula Coalition is a 501c3 nonprofit organization that provides doula services on a low-cost sliding scale for Black, low-income, LGBTQIA+, disabled, young or teen parents, and the incarcerated. You can apply for services here. If none of these work, still reach out. We can always figure something out.
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What is divinated destinies all about?Divinated destinies is a sister site that houses our more esoteric offerings. Through divinated destinies we may meet with Spirit in a more intimate container to partner with our higher self and get direction. Divinated destinies and divinely aligned work hand in hand together.
Contact Us
979-487-3663
Serving Brazoria, Matagorda, Harris and
surrounding TX counties